Few issues with your request.
1. server log is not provided.
2. bepinex log is showing multiple mods loaded.3. client log is erroring due to removing mods which contain items that have not been removed from your profile.
As such it is impossible to tell what the problem could be. Please remove all mods and provide the required logs after confirming that the error occurs (and hence is visible in said logs.)
server log i could see just a server.jsn...... have mods but also tried removing them to see if that was the issue, even though 2 days before when logged off it was fine.... ok ill do them again soon..... remove mods? start game? exit game? then use the logs?